just when you're losing faith in mankind someone like Robyn turns up...
he has a coolness and brilliance that only men can have - in a similar way to their hugs. this can make up for any 'male-style' silliness, but most just don't practice it.
I realised, though, that pretty much all of those who were at jessie's do, so good for them, and thanks for help in the slow process of regaining my faith in men.